Whether you are an Iroquois and Black or African, what is the answer? He is your nephew and you see the ignorant people trying to hurt you, hurt him. There is the story of the French servant from Malta who worked for two families raising children. He was required to leave when the children turned 18. He had no idea what he was going to do and became very embittered against his owners. He was never allowed to have a family of his own. He was a bit more neanderthal and was not in the propensity and proclivity for family yet of his own but , like a machine, he knew how to cook, clean, wash, buy clothing and take the children to school or piano lessons. He was told to imagine they were his own. But, he tended to resent them for things like ownership, legitimacy and place in the family and also inheritance. He wanted to inherit Luke the children. He had his salary and was told to give a small sum to them if he believed they were his children. He stole from the mother's satchel when she came back from market where she sold honey and candles from the family farm. They let him stay anyway. Read Rousseau on family. They shot him as he would not leave when asked. They missed but he was injured in the process and then he kept harassing the family. It is just that the father wanted to now raise his children with all of the hard work done with the tying of laces and wiping the mud off of boots. The servant came back and killed the entire family when he said he did not want to be rejected. But, the job was over. The contract is concluded. You had 18 years of work. That was good. If you understand and do not argue, you would usually get a job as a foot men on carriages or in the Royal Mail since you were faithful. You pray for the children and say hello to them. You get invited to their weddings. Maybe you meet with them and have a laugh at the pub or at church as they grow and change into older members of society. Maybe the son will ask you to watch his children and take them to music school. This is positive. But, instead you say you fear looking up to him. What does that mean? Where are you if you are looking up to him? Instead, you have been impersonating the son in a Court of law Who are you? What are you? Then, you could start your own family. This is the ancestry of a certain anthropology.

 Whether you are an Iroquois and Black or African, what is the answer? He is your nephew and you see the ignorant people trying to hurt you, hurt him.    There is the story of the French servant from Malta who worked for two families raising children.  He was required to leave when the children turned 18.  He had no idea what he was going to do and became very embittered against his owners. He was never allowed to have a family of his own. He was a bit more neanderthal and was not in the propensity and proclivity for family yet of his own but , like a machine, he knew how to cook, clean, wash, buy clothing and take the children to school or piano lessons.  He was told to imagine they were his own.  But, he tended to resent them for things like ownership, legitimacy and place in the family and  also inheritance.  He wanted to inherit Luke the children.  He had his salary and was told to give a small sum to them if he believed  they were his children.  He stole from the mother's satchel when she came back from market where she sold honey and candles from the family farm. They let him stay anyway.     Read Rousseau on family.        They shot him as he would not leave when asked. They missed but he was injured in the process  and then he kept harassing the family.   It is just that the father wanted to now raise his children with all of the hard work done with the tying of laces and wiping the mud off of boots. The servant came back and killed the entire family when he said he did not want to be rejected. But, the job was over. The contract is concluded.  You had 18 years of work. That was good.  If you understand and do not argue, you would usually get a job as a foot men on carriages or in the Royal Mail since you were faithful.  You pray for the children and say hello to them.  You get invited to their weddings.  Maybe you meet with them and have a laugh at the pub or at church as they grow and change into older members of society. Maybe the son will ask you to watch his children and take them to music school. This is positive.  But, instead you say you fear looking up to him.   What does that mean?  Where are you if you are looking up to him?  Instead, you have been  impersonating the son in a Court of law Who are you?  What are you?  

  Then, you could start your own family.  This is the ancestry of a certain anthropology.